Suffering

Suffering

“At the root of every suffering is a growing divide between spirit and mind. Spirit wants to exhibit itself and mind wants to attain higher and more. Both are not in sync with each other. The cure lies in scaling the height, which the mind wants to attain, guided by the expression of spirit. "

Suffering is probably a heavy word for you if you only have a small problem of, say, not being able to settle down in a relationship or not being able to attract your dream job or feel peace within.  

Anything you aspire for but are not able to attain makes you feel incomplete, even if you conclude that it is fine for you. You may choose to feel restless or you may choose not to think of it. In both the cases, your quality of life is impacted and your vibratory levels are beginning to contract, reducing the chances of experiencing life and manifesting it at higher frequency zone. Few more disappointments of this nature, over a period, and you tend to resign on life. Your probability of falling into a deep distress or disorder or disease, now, increases. 

Every form of problem faced by humanityhas been categorized by us into distress, disorder or disease. We, through our research, have decoded and established the root cause of any human suffering and also how all three forms of sufferings are nothing but one. They are like the three states of water gas, liquid and solid. You will learn here how and when one form of suffering converts into another formThe most chronic cases of disease, in any case, have the other two forms of suffering, from where the disease originated.  

“Consciousness Is Directly Proportional to Health.” 

Consciousness and health have a direct relationship with each other. Health is a function of wellbeing. They are directly proportional. Here is the formula 

Health (sign of direct proportional) to wellbeing (sign of direct proportional to) consciousness. 

Your wellbeing is defined in terms of your mental, emotional and spiritual being. Simplifying for you– if you have negative emotions or thoughts or anger towards the universe(god), your wellbeing is affected. This means it must sooner or later reflect on your health. This means your consciousness is shrinking.  When you are emotionally disturbed or you are angry, how is your consciousness at that time? Can you think of enjoying holidays? What happens when you have a fight in a relationship? Your entire consciousness is focused on that issue and nothing else matters to you. 

This means as your wellbeing is affected, it starts to shrink your consciousness. The bigger the consciousness, the better is the health.  

Take an example from health point of view 

All of us have experienced high temperature (fever) for few days, at least once in our life 

As a child, when you fell sick, the first day you still wanted to watch TV and go out and play. Your wellbeing was vibrating for joy. You fought for it with your mother and tried finding way to continue to enjoy life, as if there were no fever.  

The second day, fever grips you more and now you are bed ridden. Now your wellbeing from joy is moved to feeling weak and lonely. Your consciousness does not think about going to school, meeting friends or watching your favorite TV show, which you had earlier planned. So, consciousness is also shrunk. Now you want the attention of your mother all the time, to experience that you are loved and you are attended.   

The Insight: Your consciousness is now focused and you are experiencing one pointedness. This is the same trait an artist has when performing or mystic has when meditating and a sportsman has when playing. You are being forced to focus on your core issue, by your spirit, to experience love and attention, while your mind was always going out to experience freewill. 

This is the reason why we suffer. We are being forced to come in touch with our spirit and acknowledge and deal with our inherent lack of love and lack of appreciation.  

The experience of the Cure of your suffering, as you begin to reverse it, begins with the experience of the restoration of your wellbeing. This leads to the expansion of consciousness, as you become aware about yourself, for you to reach the root cause of your lack. This, in turn, leads to restoring your health.

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While drawing our algorithm, we start with identifying our symptoms. Do we look at our symptoms of today or from our childhood? Our tendencies also seem like they are about today and not from our childhood. How should I interpret this?

You can start with identifying your symptoms today and make your Algorithm identifying your Lack, Tendency and Pattern. It may seem like the tendencies are loud and clear today. This is only because as an adult, you are either more aware of it, or the tendency is more pronounced. However, if you go back to that age group of 7-14, you will find that the same tendency existed back then as well.  

For example – your lack is abandonment and so your tendency is need to prove/ excel. As an adult, you try extremely hard to prove yourself at work, but maybe as a ten-year-old you wanted to make sure that you win a colouring competition or feel worthy by collecting the maximum number of berries or fruits. 

 So, you would notice how the nature of tendency existed even back then – sometimes subtly, sometimes pronounced. It is just a matter of developing sensitivity to recognize it in that time and space. However, you can always work with current scenarios. 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  2. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness. 

After finding my LTP and mapping my algorithm, I can see how I have suffered in my childhood and continue to do so. What can I do to remedy this and reverse my suffering?

 Since you are seeking the cure, you must know that state of meditation is the state of cure. The more you are in this state, the more you move towards light, thus curing your suffering.  

All the things which come into your awareness, must now be attended to by Observing your breath. For process of attending to what has surfaced, refer to Ques no 8 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  1. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness.