Relationship – Mkt

RELATIONSHIP

“Relationship must always be bigger than the individual”

– Naveen Varshneya

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Students in Chetna become aware of the root cause of their relationship problems and arrive at solutions with meditation for health and wellbeing.

Students start to see the recurring patterns across all their relationships, and the unhealthy loop of suffering they are stuck in due to their belief. This awareness itself is the beginning of solving their relationship issues.

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Relationship the meaning of the word is a state of connectedness, especially emotional connectedness between two people. It is the desire to relate and belong to another person or community that inspires us to form relationships. Man is indeed a social animal.

As we grow older, we express ourselves through other prominent relationships:
  • Parent child
  • Husband wife/lovers
  •  Community friends, extended family
  • Work relationships with peers and boss.
Relationship is such an integral part of human existence, yet today we are all suffering to an extent in these relationships. This social framework, meant to be a source of joy and comfort, runs barren and often tumultuous.

What is the nature of relationship issue that you relate to, as most common in your life?

  • Lack of communication
  • Sense of suffocation
  • Loss of expectation
  • Lost individuality
  • Belongingness having gone amiss
  • A gnawing emptiness

The science of relationships - Our research

  • The biggest need for humanity is to belong to something; our quest for relationships arises from a void we feel inside. Hence, we search for an identity as a mother, wife or sister/ father, husband or brother, et al, to fill this void
  • We form a fixed template of relationships, based on the first relationship we see as a child that of our parents.
  • This template is based on belief and judgements that lay hidden in our subconscious, which determine what relationships we attract as adults.
  • Any deviation from this fixed template, even towards a higher frequency, makes us unstable and discontent with the relationship.

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  • The first relationship we form is with our mother in the womb. It is our home for 9 months. Our scriptures relate how the Garbh Sanskar or the environment we develop in, as a foetus, lays the ground for our future, adult relationships.
  • If you were to ever choose between the relationship and the individual, always choose the relationship.
“Before I get into a relationship with another I must be aware of my relationship to myself.”

– Naveen Varshneya

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While drawing our algorithm, we start with identifying our symptoms. Do we look at our symptoms of today or from our childhood? Our tendencies also seem like they are about today and not from our childhood. How should I interpret this?

You can start with identifying your symptoms today and make your Algorithm identifying your Lack, Tendency and Pattern. It may seem like the tendencies are loud and clear today. This is only because as an adult, you are either more aware of it, or the tendency is more pronounced. However, if you go back to that age group of 7-14, you will find that the same tendency existed back then as well.  

For example – your lack is abandonment and so your tendency is need to prove/ excel. As an adult, you try extremely hard to prove yourself at work, but maybe as a ten-year-old you wanted to make sure that you win a colouring competition or feel worthy by collecting the maximum number of berries or fruits. 

 So, you would notice how the nature of tendency existed even back then – sometimes subtly, sometimes pronounced. It is just a matter of developing sensitivity to recognize it in that time and space. However, you can always work with current scenarios. 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  2. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness. 

After finding my LTP and mapping my algorithm, I can see how I have suffered in my childhood and continue to do so. What can I do to remedy this and reverse my suffering?

 Since you are seeking the cure, you must know that state of meditation is the state of cure. The more you are in this state, the more you move towards light, thus curing your suffering.  

All the things which come into your awareness, must now be attended to by Observing your breath. For process of attending to what has surfaced, refer to Ques no 8 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  1. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness.