Is your belief taking you forward or keeping you stuck in the past?

Here’s a glimpse of how our participants work on themselves with Meditation – The Cure and our programs, thus transforming their lives.

 

The Mother who became a Child again

This mother embarked on a journey to cure her child but re-discovered herself. She discovered the woman she had buried underneath her beliefs. She connected with the child within, who still felt unloved and sought worthiness.
As she stayed in her Loop of Suffering and worked on Sexuality, Relationships & Parents her beliefs, her ego, tendencies, and patterns came to her awareness and so did answers to many of her questions.
Under the garb of spirituality, she found her ego of having given up all her desires.
As she acknowledged and accepted her desires, her Loop of Suffering took her deeper, connecting her to her parents and childhood. She decoded that her helplessness and powerlessness of childhood manifested in every situation in her life, whenever she went into panic mode.
She discovered that the roots of Domination and Criticism in her current life lay in her judgment and anger for her father. She realized how she was sitting on a see-saw of Acceptance & Rejection, and judging every action or reaction.
Her child was only a reflection of her Loop of Suffering (LoS).
Vedna helped her reach her Unstable Emotion of Unworthiness and stay with it rather than allowing her tendencies to play up. She prepares now to dig deeper within, with the science of Dark & Fantasy, in Manthan.

 

From the book

We do not need to do anything to arrive at our belief or pain to gain insight for transformation. Through the techniques, we become aware of the belief. Insight & wisdom will come on its own leading to the expansion of consciousness. Belief breaks down on its own and is replaced not with another belief, but with wisdom about why a specific event was important in our lives and what the learning was. This restores the faith in life. And as faith is restored, hope comes and negative emotions do not emerge, even if we are in the same situation again.

From Chapter Emotional Body

Responses

While drawing our algorithm, we start with identifying our symptoms. Do we look at our symptoms of today or from our childhood? Our tendencies also seem like they are about today and not from our childhood. How should I interpret this?

You can start with identifying your symptoms today and make your Algorithm identifying your Lack, Tendency and Pattern. It may seem like the tendencies are loud and clear today. This is only because as an adult, you are either more aware of it, or the tendency is more pronounced. However, if you go back to that age group of 7-14, you will find that the same tendency existed back then as well.  

For example – your lack is abandonment and so your tendency is need to prove/ excel. As an adult, you try extremely hard to prove yourself at work, but maybe as a ten-year-old you wanted to make sure that you win a colouring competition or feel worthy by collecting the maximum number of berries or fruits. 

 So, you would notice how the nature of tendency existed even back then – sometimes subtly, sometimes pronounced. It is just a matter of developing sensitivity to recognize it in that time and space. However, you can always work with current scenarios. 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  2. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness. 

After finding my LTP and mapping my algorithm, I can see how I have suffered in my childhood and continue to do so. What can I do to remedy this and reverse my suffering?

 Since you are seeking the cure, you must know that state of meditation is the state of cure. The more you are in this state, the more you move towards light, thus curing your suffering.  

All the things which come into your awareness, must now be attended to by Observing your breath. For process of attending to what has surfaced, refer to Ques no 8 

Now that I have made my algorithm and have identified my lack, what do I do with this? Do I have to re-visit my childhood?

In every moment of disappointment – current or past, you can experience the lack. There are two ways to attend to the lack, once identified – 

  1.  You may simply keep your Algorithm/Lack in awareness by writing the events of the current time and go into breathing 
  1. You can revisit your childhood and write about moments that you experienced the Lack/Algorithm and once you have written a few events (in detail), you may lay down and begin to observe your breath. 

In either of the processes, your Algorithm/lack is in your complete awareness and observing your breath after this would only bring an expansion in your awareness.